Fatherhood
SIR took a vacation day on Tuesday. It was his birthday present to himself. Little Cuter was at work, but that was okay. His plan was to spend the day with his daughter. He took her to swim class. I don't remember my father ever taking a day off work to spend with me. I went into The City to his work when I had vacation days, but the notion of turning that on its head and having him follow me around on my daily rounds was never considered. TBG never missed a game or a performance (for the most part), but he never took a whole day and spent it hanging with the kids. I was there. The babysitter was there. Work beckoned... and it was a workplace that took pride in the fact that the employees retired with years of vacation days in the bank. He never took a vacation without feeling guilty. The thought of being home and available when his colleagues were at their desks was filled with angst. When Little Cuter spent a weekend in Texas...