Of Course
For years, asking a clerk or a salesperson or a nurse or a friend for something got you No Problem for a response. It annoyed me, implying that I had asked for something difficult, that the listener would handle the situation, that it was not a problem at all. But I usually didn't think that my request might be a bother. May I have ice tea to drink? Could you hold the door for me? Can you reach that item on the top shelf? Those are requests. If I thought they might create an issue I wouldn't have asked. I didn't want to make a tumult, cause an issue, initiate a problem. No problem assumes an issue, one I didn't see, anticipate, or intend to bring to the situation. Spending most of last month sitting with TBG in the hospital, I began to notice a change. Instead of No problem people were saying Of course. That's so much nicer, isn't it? Instead of assuming a problem needed to be swept away, there's an acknowledgement ...