"If you always do what interests you, at least one person is pleased." (Katherine Hepburn)
Monday, April 8, 2024
Happy Birthday, Honey Bunny
Friday, April 5, 2024
Happy Birthday, SIR
There are people you know you will like from the moment you lay eyes on them.
There are people who bring out the best in others, without even trying.
There are people whose smile lights up a room, sharing the sunshine and joy with reckless abandon.
There are people who play to a broad audience, comfortably enhancing any gathering.
There are life long learners, who know that the world has more to offer than they've seen so far, who are open to expanding their horizons, who happily admit what they don't know, as long as someone is there to explain it.
SIR is all of those people.
His kids have a great example of how a husband should treat his wife, how a father should interact with his family. Giblet's 1st Day of School statement says he wants to be Just Like Dad when he grows up. That is a worthy goal.
Our daughter makes great decisions, especially when it came to picking a husband. We are the luckiest in-laws in the world.
Happy Birthday, SIR!! May all good things come your way, this year and every year to come.
Thursday, April 4, 2024
And Then There Was This
Wednesday, April 3, 2024
A Very Short Rant
TBG asked if we had boarding passes.
The email from United alerting me to my upcoming trip didn't have a link to boarding passes.
Turns out that if I'm not checking a bag I can't access a boarding pass anywhere but at a kiosk at the airport.
Used to be that checking a bag required waiting in a long line for an attendant to assist you. Now you can do all that from the comfort of your desk chair and simply drop off your bags when you arrive,
unlike those of us who are traveling light, for a 7am flight, who don't want to intersect with the world any more than absolutely necessary before sunrise, at least.
Nope, for those of us trying to be as low maintenance as possible, there's one more step. For my uber-anxious spouse, that's just one more thing that could possibly go wrong, one more thing for which we should add just a little more time, just in case.
Thanks to United Airlines, my 4:30am alarm is now set to 4:15.
Yawn.
Tuesday, April 2, 2024
The Women's Game
I find myself obsessed
Monday, April 1, 2024
A Lovely If Gloomy Day wonderful
The sun was out for an hour this morning. I should have taken my walk then. By the time I got through with waffles and eggs the clouds were sharing their bounty. It went on all day long.
There was no checking on petunias in need of deadheading. There was no smelling the lemon tree. I could have worked on the cactus and succulent situation in the front courtyard, but the roof over the entry didn't keep out the cold.
It was mid-50's and raining. That's yucky in any zip code, let alone one in an arid location.
Every arthritic bone and joint in our bodies is rebelling. Chopping vegetables was an exercise in mind over matter. TBG's knees make melodious music when he stands up. We're old and here to complain about it, and complain about it we will.
Once we got that ground rule established, the day unfolded in a series of serendipitous events. We turned on basket ball games at just the right time to see the fabulous plays, one after another. The women's game was beautiful basketball, the men's game had more amplitude and power. As long as we didn't switch rapidly between genders the disconnect wasn't too jarring.
There were characters galore, and since we don't really have a rooting interest in any of the remaining teams, we enjoyed the excitement without the angst of true fandom. It was a novel and delightful experience.
It being Easter Sunday, Turner Classic Movies was all Jesus all the time. We tuned in to Richard Burton refusing to deny his Faith, then walking off to his death hand in hand with Jean Simmons. They really knew how to make movies back then, with huge budgets and cinemascope and costumes that defy description.
Next up was Easter Parade , the background to a video call with Queen T which turned into our own fashion parade of Honey Bunny dresses for spring. It was a festival of florals and tulle and ruffles, a lovely offset to the grey, wet outside my window.
My Cousin Vinny kept me company as I made dinner. I got no more use for this guy was where we tuned in and we couldn't leave until Marisa Tomei explained the difference between spontaneous and romantic. We can recite the movie frame by frame. We often applaud our performances; this afternoon was no exception.
TBG channel surfed us into Pretty Woman, which we watch as a fairy tale and not social commentary. It is a wonderful fairy tale, with fabulous clothes and enough snark to make it one of our favorites, even with the cringe factor.
With a spoonful of Baskin Robbins Chocolate Chip ice cream in hand, and Star Trek on the television, i reflected on the day. I ran out to the grocery store and stood on the back patio for a minute or two, but otherwise I was inside all day long, visiting with old friends.
It was a lovely, gloomy day.




