and Sunday after noon with TBG and me added to the mix. He's thoughtful and funny and dropped off a 300 pound piece of machinery to people who are moving within the next month or two. I could not leave 3 glow-in-the-dark headbands because it would be one more thing to move, but such is the wonderfulness of Uncle Brother that SIR was thrilled.
I love these random encounters with him. He plots his travels to buy a belt at a leather shop in Indianapolis, after visiting a fraternity brother in Southern Illinois. He found the machinery on Angie's List in a community vaguely along the way. He's right up there with the most interesting people I know, and his birthday post deserves a re-posting.
Pause a moment and wish my younger brother a Happy Birthday, would you? Aim your thoughts towards Maryland, at the Metro's last stop, and lift a glass in his honor.
A nice beer or a cheap beer, whiskey or a glass of NYC water; he's easy to please.
You might mention the full facial hair experience he's been sporting for the past year or so. We saw it first when he drove all the way to Illinois to welcome FlapJilly into the family; he drove me to the airport as he left the young family for SIR's Scout's Seats at the White Sox game.
SIR drove home in the middle of the morning to drop off the tickets.
This part of Little Cuter's family is well worth the effort.
Did you notice that he drove half way across the country, rather than hopping on a plane? He has notions about the ability of metallic objects to remain in the air while he is encased within. He has other notions, too.
Balance is the key, he told me.
Family, Work, School, God, Sex - each has a place and a piece.
He has consciously, thoughtfully, often (I imagine) painfully, reinvented himself. He's created an extraordinary human being - funny, smart, purposeful, talented, giving, loving.
... a person whose footwear is never anything but sneakers.
He is himself. He's wonderful. He's mine.
Happy Happy Birthday, Brother!