Thursday, December 4, 2025

The Brownie List

I've gathered the ingredients on the countertop.  They'll live there until I'm done.
The pans are washed and ready to go, on top of the towels I inherited from Nannie.  The pot with the melting chocolate and butter was part of my mother's trousseau in 1950.  That's 75 years of oatmeal and melted butter.  
Just waiting for that chocolate.
I baked and packaged and wrote short notes to ten different sets of people who are in my life but live far far far oh just much too far away.  Everyone will reach out to thank me, not only because it's protocol for remaining on The List, but because it's been too long since we last touched base.

It's time consuming and messy and dealing with the USPS website is a nightmare and it's just about the best thing I do all year long.  Each box sparks a smile, a sigh, a wonderful warm hug around me heart.  I know so many wonderful people.  It's good to be reminded of that now and then.
 

Wednesday, December 3, 2025

Not Shopping

Dilatory means slow to act ..... and that's what happened this weekend.  I had every intention, really, of posting every day while we were in Indiana with the grandbabies.  But marathon UNO games; hide and seek in the basement; jumping at the trampoline park; and watching the snow fall... and fall... and fall, leaving more than ten inches to play with, and then hanging with the softest, snuggliest,  most loving puppy in the world,  


there was barely time to open my phone or computer to type.  

I'm assuming I'm forgiven.

By Saturday afternoon we were stir crazy.  Leaving Grandpa home to watch football, the rest of us piled into SIR's massive Ford and plowed our way through icy roads and piles of unplowed snow to the mall.  

FlapJilly loves the mall, even when there's nothng but pre-shopping to be done.  Her mom took photos of the things she liked while the boys wandered on their own .... until we came to this place.
Who knew there were this many flavors of chips in the world?



Apparently, I am among the minority.  I had no idea that Dubai Chocolate existed, let alone that it had gone viral.  
I understand green Life Savers; they and the orange ones are about the only candy I eat.  But this......
I have no idea what these are.
There were some items resembling real food.

This is a pickle party, meant to be shared.

I'm sorry.  Cotton candy comes on a paper cone at a ball game or the circus, not packaged with penguins.
And, in case you were thirsty, there were sorta kinda familiar bottles in one cooler,
fantastic cans in the other.

I will let you draw your own conclusions about the collection of delectable edibles we found;  I remain somewhere between bemused and appalled.



 

Friday, November 28, 2025

Happy Thanksgiving

You know the food is delicious when there's barely room for the turkey on the plate.  
After the feast,  we came home to this. 
Wishing you a happy and peaceful Thanksgiving weekend,  filled with local shopping (using cash) and lots of love.


Tuesday, November 25, 2025

Cccccold

FlapJilly didn't need a jacket because it was only 44 degrees outside. Her Cubs sweatshirt would be fine, if only she could find an umbrella. 

In Arizona, we'd be sending her to wait for the bus in not only a jacket but with a scarf, a hat, and mittens. 

The humidity is 98%, according to one of the many electronic listening and informing machines in my daughter's home.  The air is thick and almost visible. 

Back in Tucson,  it is also 44 degrees and 98% humidity. But it's warming up to the 70's and there's not a scintilla of rain in the forecast. 

But there's no puppy in Tucson, no grandkids or adult kids, no swarm of hugs or pleas to play hide and seek or follow a treasure map, no tween discussing algebra or the Revolutionary War. 

It seems like a fair trade. 




Monday, November 24, 2025

Traveling for the Holiday

We are flying from a small airport to a small airport, albeit that our pilots are protesting poor wages and benefits.

We are leaving sunny and 65 for overcast and 31.

The plane begins boarding 45 minutes before takeoff; considering the number of wheelchair passengers that usually travel this route that is a very brief window.

I paid an extra $32 for extra leg room, an extravagance once upon a time but now more of a necessity as old body parts require space.

We land mid-afternoon, late enough for Little Cuter to get us at the airport and early enough that the grandkids will be home from school and awake.  Given the bizarre flight schedules Allegiant Air creates, this is a highly unusual and thouroughly delightful situation.

If I am dilatory about posting, please forgive me this week.  There are a lot of hugs to be gotten and given. 

Friday, November 21, 2025

The American Revolution

Ken Burns is at it again.  

His PBS series was ten years in the making.  It's voiced by Josh Brolin and Meryl Streep and Michael Keaton and Amanda Gordon etc etc etc. reading letters home and Pennsylvania's Constitution and military communiques.  

Without photographs he relies on portraits and interpretations new and old; the project exists on many levels all at once - narration, background music, and the visuals.  It's hard to do anything but watch the screen; multi-tasking is not advised.

He brings you real people with real flaws.  Enslavers wrote about freedom and independence and liberty.  Personal slights, giant egos, recalcitrance and inaction on the field and in the Congress - some of it is really hard to watch.  

I found myself wishing for the story I learned in school.  I wanted ideals and courage and victories without any of the disturbing pieces shattering the illusion.  Too bad, that ship has sailed.  What I got was unvarnished pieces of information derived from the original sources.  

After only three episodes, TBG and I are wondering what the world would look like if Abigail Adams had been elected President.  I didn't know that Washington trounced the British at Trenton with only one third of the troops he expected.  I relived childhood vacations in upstate New York, racing around Fort Ticonderoga with very little consideration of its pivotal role as the British fleet floated down river.  

Ken Burns does his homework and he's happy to share.  

******

Here's a wonderful interview, if you want more.

Thursday, November 20, 2025

A Lunch Date

It sprinkled and then it drizzled and then there was an outright downpour.  A gardener draped her jacket over my head because I don't want to see you be wet but it was all to no avail.  I was soaked and I was going home.

I checked to be sure it was possible, then met TBG at honme to share the plan.  Flu (extra strength) and COVID (Moderna) shots at Albertsons, then lunch. No appointment or prescription or co-pay needed,  just come on over.  

So,, we did.  

We filled out the paperwork so Medicare would accept it, waited for five minutes while it was processed and the vials were prepared, sat one after the other, and took our medicine like grown ups.... much to the amusement of the similarly aged couple on the two other chairs.

We laughed about what a lunch date looked like these days.  

Rememberinng the instructions from our first COVID vaccination. we kept our injected arms in motion as we drove and then ordered and ate.  Midway through, we took Advil.  All the way along, we shared our syptoms.  They were happening to each of us at the same time.  Throbbing and itching and heat and as the sensations moved along our arms it was obvious that we'd gotten the same ingredients and that we'd lived together for a very long time.

We finish each other's sentences, often knowing what the sentence will be before it's spoken aloud.  We know when the other is hungry and we usually have exactly the same food in mind.  We make the same assumptions and connections without exchanging a single word.  

All that, and yet we've never mimicked each other's symptoms.

It might mean something.  It might not.  But it's what's on my mind and I thought I'd share.  


Wednesday, November 19, 2025

A Day of Images

There were so many similarities and so many contradictions to the images.

There was friendship and solidarity and speechifying. 

It was the same and it was different.

Le Monde


Gulf News
The same but different.

My head hurts.

Tuesday, November 18, 2025

I Am Too Old For This World

Sixty or so years ago, TBG made this pump lamp at summer camp.
Today, the squiggly light bulb (which replaced the regular kind of light bulb we'd been using our entire lives) burned out.  

That's what we used to say when the filament in the regular kind became disengaged and discolored.  I don't know if the squiggly bulb has the same internal mechanism; its surface is opaque. I use burned out idiomatically these days,  I guess.

I went to the light bulb drawer in the garage and found this:
The pump lamp lives on TBG's nightstand so. a soft,  2700k output is perfect.  The Estimated Energy Cost of $0.96/ year made me smile.  So far, so good.  

I unscrewed the squiggly one and inserted the new one and unfolded the box to recycle it. As Big Cuter often reminds the world, if there are words, we will read them.  And so,  walking to the kitchen,  I read the verbiage. 

There were instructions.  


This was not a "how many old people does it take to change a lightbulb" joke.....or was it?  TBG postulated that it was a halogen bulb, but halogen's not a word on the box.  

Instead, I read "digital device" and I stopped in my tracks.  

The lightbulb, a concept that has been illuminating the indoors without much effort or interaction with its environment since 1879, now needs a manual and a decoder ring.  

Honestly, I am just too old for this world.
*****
I used AI for the first time today, opting for it to do its magic on the electric cord on the right edge of the photo.  The bottom left corner has a disclaimer.
A disclaimer.  

I am definitely too old.

 

Monday, November 17, 2025

A Modern American Feast

Brother surprised me with a phone call today.  Was he interrupting football?  Yes, thankfully.  

The first topic on his mind was Miss Stella, my precocious Garden Leader.  We laughed and loved about her and gardening and soil deliveries and nieces and daughters and fathers and mothers.  He's very good at connections.

We moved on to planning a visit while we are all in and around Chicago for Thanksgiving, and then he told me a story about his upcoming Thursday Spectacular Feast.

Turns out that his niece and her husband bought a beautiful four story brownstone right across the street from his daughter's coach house, without knowing that a cousin was right there already.  This is a happy coincidence.

So far everyone involved is still talking to one another, ans so the extended families will be celebrating together, in the new brownstone.

At the table there will be some Jews, a Muslim, and some of unknown affiliations.  There will be some who keep kosher and some who eat halal foods, some vegans, some vegetarians.  

Apparently, a turkey on the table will be acceptable.  The spiral ham, however, is not.  It will remain in the kitchen.  This is something on which everyone agreed.

Truly a modern American feast.  

Friday, November 14, 2025

Ouch


Advice for today - Do not get in the way of a football thrown by a 3rd grader.  
Better advice - Do not try to catch it when you are holding something in your dominant hand.

I share this advice from (p)ersonal ex(p)erience.  My (p)inkie took the brunt of the ball(')s im(p)act.
There aren(')t a lot of keys that use the (p), but the exit key is there at the end of every sentence.  After the first (p)eriod I ty(p)ed I realized that something had to give.  Hence, the (p)'s;  the brackets reflect the fact that I had to find an alternative method of entering that key.

And so, although there are emails and $500,000 rewards baked into the theoretically clean bill and so much more, I am going to give myself the night off.  Avoiding using my little finger is doable but no fun at all.   

I am going to soak my joint in ice water.

Thursday, November 13, 2025

A Beautiful Day In The Garden

Once again, there was no running water in Grandma's Garden.  
This is some of the Bucket Brigade.
After several years, our Dollar Store watering cans are on their last legs.
This gardener figured out a way to save every drop .
Yes, he was very proud of himself.

Our produce is producing prodigiously this year, mostly because I didn't allow any tastes until the plants were settled and growing new leaves.  Now we have so much lettuce that there's a full leaf for anyone who wants a taste.  The butter lettuce was a big hit, but only one scholar wanted to eat the one big leaf on the who-knows-what lettuce hovering over the oregano.
 There were great differences of opinion on the garlic chives - spicy, awful, garlic-y, mmmmm good, NO!  The chocolate mint is a big hit, with easy to pick individual leaves spreading out in a tire masquerading as a flower bed.  

The onion bulbs are beginning to sprout scallions, both in the garden and in the cups the scholars took home a few weeks ago.  The radishes and carrots are sending up pretty little true leaves, the precursors to the greenery that will let us know that the veggie is growing nicely.

It's hot and it's dirty and I love every minute of it.

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

I Just Don't Know

Angus King said that the shutdown wasn't getting the job done.

Tim Kaine said it hurt to sit next to his constiuents in church and hear them say they were unable to feed their families.  

Bernie Sanders said that the Democrats gave in to a bully and accomplished exactly nothing about health care.  

Adelita Grijalva said “A promise for a vote is no guarantee that relief will come, and means little coming from leaders who blocked my swearing in and continue to protect Trump at any cost.”

TBG says the pain is not worth continuing the fight when there is no end in sight and no real hope that anything meaningful will pass both houses.

I feel slighted and disrespected and cancelled.  Standing on street corners, writing postcards, blogging, sending (small) donations - all for what?

I'm glad that furloughed federal workers will be reinstated and that they and the essential workers will receive their back pay.  I'm glad that (the smaller number of ) SNAP recipients will, sometime this month, find money on their debit cards. 

I'm torn between laughing and crying at the thought that any adult - hell, any reasonably aware 6th grader - could believe in a pinky promise from the feckless Republican leadership.

And if the restoration of the ACA subsidies somehow manages to pass the House, who doubts that the malignant narcissist, though often asleep behind the Resolute desk, would wake from a deep sleep to slash a VETO with his sharpie.  That grudge against Obama is never going away.

If there's a good reason I'm missing, please let me know.  If there's a Democrat with a clearly stated rationale for Leader (?) Schumer allowing (orchestrating) this situation I'd love to hear it. 

For now, I just don't know how I feel.


Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Thank A Veteran

I never identified with the kind of person who would take up arms to defend a cause.  I never thought of myself as a person who would die for an idea.  

I wondered what it took to create that kind of dedication to something other than a loved one. I never doubted that I'd throw myself in front of a tiger rushing at their faces.  I couldn't imagine that a concept could have that much power.

I stood in awe of those who took an oath and swore to protect me and the Constitution, all at the same time.  I never worried about my safety; the world's mightiest military stood between me and any threat.

Plus, who doesn't like looking at a dress uniform on a ramrod straight body?  I know I do.

So I am now and always have been grateful to Kevin and Terry and Aaron and Amy and everyone else who is the kind of person who can care enough about an idea to put their life at risk.  


But, as democratic norms crumble, I'm beginning to understand the urge. 

Monday, November 10, 2025

On The Sun - A Snippet

Watching the San Francisco 49ers embarrass themselves in their San Jose stadium,  we were struck by the sunlight.

Attempts were made by four over-educated adults, none seemed just right. Comparisons to Tucson were inevitable; harsh and unrelenting were tossed into the mix until Not-Kathy came to her defense.

I love our sun. It's always there, never gloomy grey for days in end,  and it.... it.... it makes no apologies for itself. It is what it is.

As I cry/laugh/scream at the video of FFOTUS napping behind the Resolute Desk during a meeting on dementia and the preventive effects of healthy habits while promoting a weight loss product sold by his eponymous drug distribution organization it is lovely to contemplate descriptions of the sun

Friday, November 7, 2025

The Further Adventures of Miss Stella, Garden Leader

Over the last week or so, ever since we planted the raised beds, I am greeted with watered plants and a raked footpath when I open the garden gate .  Mr. Guy, the landscaper, told me he'd been watering every morning in case the supply line was cut again.  I assumed he raked as a favor.  After all, everyone loves our garden.

Today, though, the truth was revealed.  Unbeknownst to me, my enthusiastic 5th grader has upgraded herself to my assistant.  It's working out quite well.

Miss Stella called out to me as she approached the gate, annoucing her presence with panache.  She swept into the space, a force of nature, carefully eyeing her surroundings.  I was busy handing out seeds and rescuing the hose from overly invested eight year olds.  When I looked up, I was stunned.

Watering cans were being filled, tools were being gathered, ollas were being filled, and two newbies were raking in the restricted area.  Still sorta speechless, I asked them why they were in there.  Stella told us to rake this, Miss.

By that point, Miss Stella had my full attention.  

Let me give you my report.  Janet and I watered all your plants and raked this morning. We showed Mr. Playground Monitor my Garden Leader card and told him we had permission to go in and he said okay.

Mr. P.M. is not a man to allow unusual activity when he is in charge.  That she got away with this without my talking to him first is remarkable.  That she took a friend in with her pushes this close to a miracle.

I'm playing mahjong tomorrow morning.  I won't be in the garden, but I'm not worried.  Apparently, I have a capable assistant.

Thursday, November 6, 2025

Something's Changed

The world seems like a better place this morning.  I did absolutely nothing to make it so, but I'm claiming the win anyway.

I have been so disappointed in Americans for such a long time; the lifting of the weight is palpable.  My shoulders aren't hunched up around my ears; today, my step feels lighter.  

Exit interviews were with voters stunned that life had turned very dark, very quickly, for them, not just for the other.  Nobody likes socialism until the well runs dry.

The passage of every school budget override in and around our town; young people engaged in the process; more votes cast in NYC's five boroughs than any election since 1969; Californians doing more than just whining about Republican redistricting - there were so many places to find joy.   

How I know this? For the first time in exactly one year, I was able to listen to the news in my car.  FFOTUS's reelection made me realize that I couldn't have his inanity and criminality and impunity inserted into my space; rage has no place behind the wheel.  

Today, though, I drove happily, windows down, as familiar voiced were, once again, telling me wonderful things.

And I was smiling.  

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

FlapJilly likes middle school.  

Her mother and I are bemused.  Neither of us liked middle school.  Neither of us know anyone except TBG who liked middle school, and he liked it because he was captain of every sports team and president of every class and club and because he was taller (although skinnier) than most of his peers.

But FlapJilly goes off every morning with a smile on her face, and she returns the same way.  She is not bothered by the nonsense that tortured me when I was 11.  She has softball friends and elementary school friends.  She's on the President's Honor Roll, with her perfect attendance and 4.0 GPA, but only knew about that honor because a friend mentioned it to her.  

Her mother would have loved that announcement, would have shared it far and wide... or at least as far as her parental units.  FlapJilly mentioned it only in response to her mom asking if anything surprising happened at school that day.

She even likes walking down the halls between classes.  She and Gimbels, a bff since first grade, trade high fives as they pass one another.  Yesterday, Gimbels switched it up a bit; she added Hey, I like your knees.

FlapJilly laughed. Little Cuter laughed.  I laughed.

What I would have given for a friend like that when I was in 6th grade.  Oh, what I would have given.

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

There Are Elections

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised.  

I suppose I should trust that our most cherished institutions will hold.  

A Senior Judge in DC shut down the White House's attempt to intervene, reminding them that it's written in the Constitution that elections are run by the states.  

That judge, Colleen Kollar-Kotelly, sits in an office on Constitution Avenue, a fact which made me smile as I addressed a postcard thanking her for doing just that.  

There are two women running for Governor of their states, and somehow their gender doesn't seem to be a core issue.  

That's another fact which makes me smile, and smiles have been in short supply recently.  

FFOTUS bragged about acing his MRI while the rest of us wonder what prompted the doctors to order it.  Apparently, death by drone is lawful even though the DOD lawyers didn't show up to the briefing to tell our representatives why.  A trans woman is the proud new madam of a brothel in Amsterdam and I have no idea how she showed up in my Substack feed.

And still, there are elections.  For today, at least, the center holds.



Monday, November 3, 2025

Another Sign Is Needed

(Written on Oct. 30th)

I spent my blogging time wondering about my sign for tomorrow.  Once again, protesters will be outside Rep. Juan Ciscomani's office at 8am.  I'm not sure who is organizing it.  I'm not sure if there is a theme.  I could find the invitation but I'm not that motivated.  

I called his DC office today and had a polite conversation with a staffer.  
  • Yes, the Congressman is forgoing his salary during the shut down. 
  • No, he has no specific plan to reopen the government.
  • He is meeting with the Speaker and other Members trying to fix the problem.   
I'm all out of clever ideas to describe the insanity of denying food to anyone, let alone children and the sick and the elderly, especially when there are billions of dollars sitting in a contingency fund set up for crises such as these.

I cannot think about the fact of the destruction of the East Wing, let alone look at the pictures.  No way I want to carry a sign about it.

One thing has been bugging me since his election,  He is totally unavailable.  One virtual town hall was free.  Everything else he's done has had a fee or a membership requirement.  And so, I created this:
Cousin #1 and I will be standing on the street until it's time to meet Cousin #2 and Dr. K for mahjong.  

Arts and crafts, friends, games.... it's a great start to the weekend.

(There were 50 or so of us old folks out there,  doing our parts to save democracy.)

Thursday, October 30, 2025

Something New

I accomplished something today.  I've never done this before, not once in all my more than seven decades on this planet. I never imagined such a thing would occur,  let alone could occur. 

After a trip to the local Ace  Hardware for sealant and to Michael's for clay pots, after another recess spent organizing water brigades running laps with plastic watering cans between a working hose bib and Grandma's Garden, after collecting and tossing those Dollar Store watering cans which could not bear the burden,  I sat quietly under the umbrella and began to create ollas. 

The sealant is equal parts water proofing epoxy.  The dispenser is a clever gadget mixing the two.  The lid edges of the three inch pots are wide enough to drag it along.  

The situation becomes more complicated when the pots are pressed together. Goo extrudes. This is not a bad thing; I use my fingers to turn the olla and smear the extra in and around the seams. 

The last time I did this I was on my paved patio at home.  I used a table covered with a plastic tablecloth (I so love the Dollar Store).

Today, my workspace was a bench in the garden. This bench is where seeds are dispensed,  where holes are poked in soil filled Solo cups, where spills are common. 

And so it came to pass that, after using many of the school nurse's alcohol prep wipes, several attempts in the shower and at the sink, with a stiff nail brush and a loofah, I am now in a position to type that which I have never typed before:
 I have epoxy-ed soil onto my hands.

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

We Planted

There has been lettuce in the standing garden outside the gate for a few weeks.  The oregano is a new addition.  The tiny clay ollas I made and thought were useless are now passsively irrigating our produce.
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For scholars who are just walking by, Would you like a bite of lettuce? is a powerful inducement to stop and have a taste.  I now have enough plants to allow us to denude one or two and still have more to feed us tomorrow.  The oregano is there to balance the blandness of the buttercrunch; it tastes like pizza is my favorite comment.

We filled the two new raised beds with ollas and veggie starts.  Celery and basil and dill and a tomato plant here

spinach and dill and some petunias and a snapdragon in the other bed (which I forgot to photograph...sigh).

This raised bed has lots of something coming up..... I have no idea what it will turn out to be.  There didn't seem to be any leaves punching through the soil on the right edge, so we placed four onion bulbs and a sprig of dill to round out the planting.  I would add ollas but I'm afraid to dislodge the roots of those hardy suckers who survived a Tucson summer, a dry monsoon, and an unusually warm fall without any human intervention.  We'll be hand watering this area.
The painted tire that Mr. Guy rolled in for us last year is now home for the chocolate mint plant and several onion bulbs.  Mint has a tendency to take over; this one is totally contained.  Even if it sent roots down into the ground below, the soil is so dense and unforgiving that those roots will either die or turn around and rejoin their compatriots in the fresh, amended soil.
There is still more work to be done.  This old raised bed is a favorite spot for digging and making mud tunnels and looking for worms and buried treasure.  
Behind it is the second new raised bed and the older bed's twin.  Those are not plants back there.  They are Dollar Store scarecrow-on-a-stick faces.  Rearranging them is something else that makes the kiddos smile.  Today they are facing one another, kissing.

The best part of the garden, though, is our mandarin orange tree.  It has recovered from its near death experience when the irrigation was shut off all summer long and is now covered in lots of little white flowers-soon-to-be-oranges, like the one right here.
We can hardly wait.

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Time Flies - A Snippet

It's pitch dark by 6:15.

Thanksgiving is a month away, with Hannukah nipping at its heals.

And suddenly it's almost TBG's birthday and then mine.  

I remember thinking that I would be 9 forever.  Now, I keep forgetting how old I am; the years are flying by in a way they never have before.  

All this while I'm conscious of living in the moment, of being present, of relishing each smell and sound and sight.

I'm not sure I'm pleased with the situation.

Monday, October 27, 2025

Slogans From A Catalog

SOME HIT CLOSE TO HOME

Being Twenty in the 70's was more fun than being Seventy in the 20's

I don't mind getting older but my body is taking it badly.

It's weird being the same age as old people.

I don't want to go through things that don't kill me but make me stronger anymore.

SOME WERE PERSON SPECIFIC

Everyone is born right handed.  Only the gifted overcome it.

Emotional Support Husband - Do Not Pet

Being a TROPHY HUSBAND is exhausting.

Excellent friend.  Would recommend.

SOME WERE SELF-REFERENTIAL

Sometimes I talk to myself, then we both laugh and laugh

I'M COLD.  Me 24:7

My password is the last 8 digits of pi.

I just want to bake stuff and watch Christmas movies.

Bigfoot saw me but nobody believes him.

Sarcasm.  It's how I hug.

Underestimate me.  That'll be fun.

If you think I'm short, you should see my patience.

Hold on.  Let me overthink this.

My plants are rooting for me.

SOME WERE EXPLANATORY

I've lost my mind.  I'm pretty sure the kids took it.

I'm not arguing.  I'm explaining why I'm right.

I don't have my ducks in a row.  I have squirrels and they are everywhere.

I'm the oldest; I make the rules.  I'm the middle; I'm the reason we had rules.  I'm the youngest; the rules don't apply to me.

I'm a multi-tasker: I can listen, ignore, and forget all at the same time.

In my defense, I was left unsupervised.  (my personal favorite!)

SOME WERE OBVIOUSLY CORRECT

90% of being married is yelling "WHAT?" from other rooms.

Either you LOVE DOGS or you're wrong.

Books - the original handheld device.

A day without books is like (just kidding, I have no idea).

"Ehh, that's good enough"  ~ Mediocretes

THERE WAS EXCELLENT ADVICE:

Meddle not in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.

AND THERE WAS THE ONE I LIKED THE BEST:

Today I Choose Joy


from the Winter 2025 Signals catalog

Friday, October 24, 2025

Too Pooped to Pop

Mayo Clinic is remarkable.

It is also a four hour round trip from home.

I'm impressed, relieved, and exhausted.

If I could put two thoughts together they would be about great medical care.

Unfortunately, I cannot.

Thursday, October 23, 2025

My Congressman Sent A Letter

Rep. Ciscomani and twelve other vulnerable Republicans sent a letter to Mike Johnson on Tuesday, a letter that is being touted as a plea to reopen the government.  As my Representative's website reports:

These 13 House Republicans reaffirmed that Congress’s first duty is to keep the government working for the American people - not to use shutdowns as leverage for political gain - and that responsible reforms, such as with healthcare, must move forward on its own merits, through regular order, as soon as the Democrat-caused federal government shutdown ends.

(the underlining is mine)  

In and of itself, that seems perfectly reasonable....  at least the parts I underlined.  Kinda like a middle school social studies book describing the role of one of the co-equal branches of government.

Oh, right. Nobody teaches civics any more.  And that whole co-eequal branches thing is long gone.  And don't get me started on.... no don't even mention what that awful, evil, America hating devil incarnate is doing to the White House.... the PEOPLE'S HOUSE.....

Are they actually suggesting that the Speaker bring back the House and allow healthcare reform to move on with a robust debate involving their colleagues across the aisle?   Up or down, on its merits, politics be damned.... is it a please pay attention to the fact that our constituents are furious with us letter?

It would be lovely to believe that this came from a caring heart instead of a fearful one.

There was one line, though, that could have come from my own fingers:

Allowing these tax credits to lapse without a clear path forward is not an option. 

We shall see...... keep calling.... 

Wednesday, October 22, 2025

It Was a Perfect Plan

Moderate temperatures were promised.  Home Depot's founder just donated $50million to HBCU's so I felt good about shopping there.  Not-Kathy and Aunt Jane were there, too; hugs were exchanged.  I loaded up a cart with lettuce and spinach and celery (!) and Early Girl tomatoes and basil, checked myself out, and was at the garden ten minutes later.  That's when things began to go awry.

It was hot.  

In order to reach the handle, the kiddo who volunteered to open the umbrella was found standing on the tree stump that holds it up - a definite no-no.  Whistles were blown.  Conversations were had.  It all worked out in the end (I'll remember - no feet, no knees, nothing but my bottom on the stump) and tears were averted, but it was a close call.

I found the clay pots I glued together last year in my first attempt at creating inexpensive olla balls.  They were enmeshed in spider webs holding little white balls of baby spiders (ugh).  We decided to put the lettuce in the raised bed on the playground side of the garden's fence.  If we can manage to keep from eating it for a while, it should cover the space with healthy snacks.

We practiced taking the seedlings out of the six pack.  We dug holes as deep as the root balls.  After gently separating the roots, we planted them and tucked them in.  We dug holes to house the faux ollas and buried them.

It was time to water the veggies in.  I took the 4-way-key out of my pocket.  I placed it on the valve and turned it.

Nothing.

We checked for kinks in the hose.  I turned it off and on.  A few sad drops dribbled out of the nozzle.  Worse, there was no left over liquid in the watering cans that hang on the outer fence.  (Only spider webs!!!)

Not only were there planted lettuce seedlings, there were all those other veggies sitting forlornly in their containers.  There is no way that any of them would survive without a thorough soaking.  I sent an email to Mr. Guy, who's in charge of outdoor spaces, wondering if, once again, the middle school had shut off our water without telling us.

The Perfect Principal walked by; she promised to get your water turned on.
 
While I was fretting, Miss Stella, the most helpful of the Garden Leaders, organized her fellow 5th graders into an old fashioned bucket brigade.  From the cafeteria's water bottle filler to Grandma's Garden and then back again, they spent half their recess saving our plants.  They were all new to the garden;  Miss Stella is quite persuasive.

I'll be back tomorrow to finish the work.  There are bigger ollas for the bigger raised beds and the bigger plants.  

It seems like another perfect plan.

We shall see.





Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Silliness

The protests were peaceful but he's still in the White House, building a ballroom by tearing down the East Wing, and gilding everything in sight..

He's also touting all the land available in Egypt and surrounding Arab nations for the Palestinians to create great lives as the shelling continues in Gaza.

The Mayo Clinic is the victim of a "nationwide technology problem" leading to an hour or more wait time on the phone.  The site won't load anything beyond the home page.

The olla ball company has not returned any of the messages I've left over the past 10 days.  

TBG's on a 7 day course of treatment that precludes his three major food groups - chocolate, caffeine, and milk.

Frustration rules.  Silliness, really.  Most of life is going along quite smoothly.  It's just that I'm always on edge these days, and everything kinda hurts.

Monday, October 20, 2025

It Was Joyous

The sun was out and I was here to protest in it, at 8am. 

By definition, it was a good day.
By the time I left at 9:30 there were people around the corner, out of site.
This is the entrance to the community that protests every Saturday.  
Their usual dozen or so had swelled to many many dozens.
I left and collected TBG and we drove up to Oro Valley.  
He usually lets me represent the family, but this event hit him differently.
"Numbers matter and I care."

The crowd was a little younger (not much) and a lot more boisterous.  
I didn't chant in the 1970's and I didn't chant yesterday.  
I did wave my sign(s).

Having held placards at these events before, I created a self-standing unit to lean upon.
Yes, they are garden stakes.  They, as well as the Camus quote, attracted a lot of attention.
I learned another lesson.  
20 year old scrapbooking adhesives do not live up to their name.  I spent the first protest sticking the stripes back onto the posterboard; I taped them down before we took off again.

There were flamingos and frogs and a turtle or two.  There were many chickens.

The signs were not hateful, nor were the t-shirts.  A new friend, Paul, stopped and chatted with TBG for a while.  As always, it was a friendly, happy crowd.
This was the most original sign all day.
We left, TBG carrying his watching-the-kids-play-sports chair and the giant red, white, and blue pinwheel, I dragging my sign and our water.  It's exhausting work, protecting democracy.   But as I looked at my husband's smiling face I realized that I had not led hinm astray when I told him it would be fun.  It was joyous.